Being a Mother is a blessing. It can be hard work but all the I Love You’s, kisses on the cheek and hugs make it all worth it.
My son was born a little under 5 lbs and was ready to leave the hospital before me because Preeclampsia (high blood pressure during pregnancy) had its way with me. 23 hours in labor and still had a C-section. I was high as a kite on pain meds and can’t remember every single detail but the scar remains. He is my forever belated Bornday gift, being born 5 days after mine.
He has an old soul and a kind heart, I am proud to be the mother of this cool guy.
Co-parenting is another challenge but one I’m still learning to get through. Communication is everything and I’m constantly learning that people can’t read my mind and that everything has to be discussed to confirm everyone’s on the same page. I’m a work in progress. I appreciate Bryson’s dad for trying to work together on this.
I love the look in my son’s eyes when he gets to see me sing/act, when he heard I got 1st Runner Up for Ms. Full Figured NC, when he helps mommy get ready for a makeup client or tell me that I need to give someone my business card. I love that he sees me going after my dreams and what goes into it. Although I dislike the time I get to have with him because schedule can get crazy, I do love the fact that he tells me I’ll always be his mommy and even reminds me to take off my makeup.
Being a mother is a constant on the job training that never ends. I am grateful to have my mother to call and ask anything when I’m feeling like I have no idea what to do. She is my rock and there’s no greater love than one of a mother. Through all the good and bad decisions, my mother supports me whether she agrees or not. She holds my hand and prays consistently. A mother never stops worrying about her child, even though I’m in my 37th Chapter, she still wonders if I’m okay and taking care of myself. I’m sure I’ll be the same with my son.
Mother’s Day isn’t just for people to get you cards, flowers and gifts. Although it’s nice, use this Hallmark created day and every other day to reflect on the blessing you have been given. Whether it started through 9 months of pregnancy or placed in your life, you are a mother. Don’t forget what an awesome, yet challenging task you have been given but take it head on and don’t give up. You are enough and have been blessed with the greatest gift, cherish it and know that you are not the first to have this career of being a Mom. There’s always help available from another mom who has gone through it or knows someone who has. Happy Mother’s Day to all the Moms whether it’s your first or you’ve got tenure in this. Enjoy this day and each day after, you deserve it!
Make sure you come out and support Bryson and I in our first fashion show together: Summer Daze
HAPPY MAMA’S DAY 2019!!
